I actually had one of my friends say to me, " why are you worried about what he is doing when you aren't there he spends hundreds of dollars on you when you are there who cares that he hasn't texted you". This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. You have to be willing to share him with his education process. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can. You will only have a happy relationship if either you both believe in the Mormon Church, or both do not believe. He will come to you. I'm engaged to a junior intern and we're supposed to get married soon. He sees around 50 patients a day and is always tired when gets home n wants peace and quiet. But the lies sting some people. Right now she won't even watch a movie.
For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. This includes both asking and offering assistance. Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on.
That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. Moved homes 5 times in that time. This can also be the basis for forming important friendships, and learning proper skills for social interaction. The church is very important to her.
They therefore have a high standard to work toward. Why am I still with him. You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself. He also has sacrificed a more easy lifestyle. Plan on rolling your eyes A LOT at family get torturers together. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. I'm not going to break up with her because of her religion, but if we can't come to some kind of understanding about what we'd do with kids After reading every page of that CES letter I am fully aware this religion is a complete fabrication.