Put your best foot forward; be soft-spoken, courteous, well-mannered, chivalrous, and respectful. His hectic job aside, he is an amazing man, very loving and family oriented, which is what I have always wanted. I've been dating my girl for 5 years and we have just broke up because she told me she likes someone else but she say she still loves me I have been married for 8 months, my husband is starting his training in orthopaedics Never imagined my life will be like this The 3 years we were together prior marriage when he was an intern were not like this at all I read all the comments and I can see there no much hope for things to improve Constant absences, constants arguments, I have to make myself available when he is available, I am an architect, I have a demanding job myself, but still beings doctor seems to be a lot more important than my career. In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person. I got married to a Mormon woman. That's a really sad story. You never walks you'll never know.
Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate. Pickings are slim at church. And don't fall for all their talk of being open and welcoming. It does kick your butt!. I have been happily married to a non-mormon for 20 years.
I am a military doctor's wife, so in addition to the hideous hours, we have deployments. Of course I have time for my SOs, of course I give of myself to them. Go for the joy, the experiences, the children to come. God will help you both work this out. Topics like race and polygamy have been "adequately" explained away, so I don't think we'd get anywhere discussing those things.
The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity. Moved homes 5 times in that time. That was hard on my relationship and I had to give up on my dream of being a computer programmer. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. Like any woman I am a Medical Assistant I sometimes question myself and ask myself what I would do if "unfaithfulness" came across. Her church is more important to her than you are ever will beplain and simple. Bottom line pardon the 'pun' is that what spoils being a Doctors wife is accentuated by female patients who try to impress via way of dress and or behaviour Lets face it - being a Doctor is something that many females find attractive My thoughts are with all Doctors wives. I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far.